Month: May 2024

The Top Table: Who Sits Where at a Wedding?

When it comes to wedding receptions, the top table is the star of the show. It’s the front and centre stage where the most important people in your life will share in the joy of your special day. 

Traditionally, the bride, groom, bride’s parents, groom’s parents, the best man, and the maid of honour sit at the top table. The bride and groom sit in the middle, their respective best man and maid of honour sit next to them, and then the parents sit next to them. 

But who says we have to stick to tradition? Keep reading for a comprehensive guide to who sits where at the wedding top table, including 11 ideas for non-traditional wedding top table layouts. 

What is a top table at a wedding?

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The top table at a wedding is the main table at the wedding reception. This is where the bride and groom sit along with their closest family and friends. It’s usually positioned in a prominent location so that everyone can see the happy couple and their nearest and dearest. 

Wedding top tables can be any shape and size. There are traditional seating patterns for wedding top tables. But, it’s your special day, and the most important thing is that you have those around you whom you love and trust the most. So, pick whoever you want to sit at the top table and follow an arrangement that feels right for you. 

Who sits at the top table at a wedding?

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Traditionally, the bride, groom, bride’s parents, groom’s parents, the best man, and the maid of honour sit at the top table at a wedding. The bride and groom sit in the middle, their respective best man and maid of honour sit next to them, and then the parents sit next to them, often in the following order:

  • On the bride’s side: maid of honour, bride’s mum, bride’s dad, or any other gendered parent.
  • On the groom’s side: best man, groom’s mum, groom’s dad, or any other gendered parent.

Alternatively, sometimes the traditional wedding table order might alternate the respective relations of the bride and groom as follows:

  • On the bride’s side: best man, groom’s mum, bride’s dad, or any other gendered parent.
  • On the groom’s side: maid of honour, groom’s dad, bride’s mum, or any other gendered parent.
Wedding traditional top table seating arrangement
Who sits where at a wedding: traditional top table plan

Whatever arrangement your decide, this is your big day, and you can ask anyone you’d like to sit at the top table with you. Some people only want their besties by their side, while others prefer the company of siblings. Whatever you choose, your happiness is what matters most.

It’s also important to note that this is only the traditional arrangement. In these progressive times, modern couples are rewriting the rules to better reflect their personal identities and values. Each couple may have their own unique arrangement, especially for LGBTQ+ couples or those who wish to embrace gender-neutral or inclusive practices. 

11 traditional and creative wedding top table plans

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Looking for some more unusual top table seating plans? Check out these 11 top table seating arrangements to help you get started. 

1) Traditional top table layout

The traditional top table layout is where the bride and groom sit in the middle of the table and their nearest and dearest surround them in a specific order,

As above, the best man and maid of honour sit next to the bride and groom, followed by their respective parents. This layout puts the couple at the heart of the celebration, flanked by those who have supported them the most.

2) Sweetheart top table layout

If you’re looking for something a little more intimate, the sweetheart wedding table is the perfect choice.

The sweetheart wedding table is a table for just the bride and groom. There are no distractions, no chattering family — just you and your new spouse sharing this magical moment. 

3) Wedding party top table layout 

If you’d rather bring the party to the top table, consider having your parents sit at a table designated for the family and invite your whole wedding party to sit at the top table. Friends are the family you choose, after all!

You may want to have your maid of honour and best man sat next to you, for the sake of tradition. Alternatively, mix it up and intersperse your bridesmaids and groomsmen along the table, creating a lively and dynamic atmosphere. This layout allows you to be surrounded by your closest friends, ensuring a fun and celebratory vibe at the heart of the reception.

4) Cuties only top table layout

Hold up, hold up — cuties only at this table, please!

This table has the flower girls and page boys sitting at the top table with you. If your kids are involved in your wedding, you have a niece or nephew you’re especially close to, or simply just want to give them a lasting memory, this is the perfect layout.

Imagine their little faces lighting up when they realise they get to sit with the newlyweds! Not only does this make the day extra special for them, but it also adds an adorable touch to your reception.

5) For the speeches

Keep things practical and only have people seated at the top table who are making a wedding speech. This gives you flexibility over who sits with you and ensures those delivering speeches are easily accessible. Plus, it can streamline the reception and keep everyone’s attention focused where it needs to be during those heartfelt moments.

6) Keep it old-school

Invite your grandparents to sit at your top table and share the magical memories for your special day with them. This layout honours their place in your life and adds a touch of nostalgia and warmth to the celebration. Plus, the photos will be adorable. 

7) Nearest and dearest

Invite your mum, dad, favourite cousin, or best uncle to sit at the top table with you and revel in the support of your nearest and dearest. 

We know a traditional top table will be heavily family-dominated. But, incorporating the family members who mean the most to you will not only honour the role they’ve played in your life, but  also create a warm, intimate, and unique atmosphere at the heart of your reception. 

8) Siblings only table

They’ve been your best friend since day one, they know you better than anyone else, and they loved you even during those awkward teenage years. Why wouldn’t you want these special people at your top table? We’re talking about siblings.

Of course, we respect that everyone has a different relationship with their siblings. But, if your brothers and/or sisters have been your confidants, cheerleaders, and partners in crime, having a siblings-only top table could be the perfect way to honour those unique bonds.

9) Best friends for life

Invite your besties to share the special memories and sit at the top table with you and your new spouse. If you have multiple best men or maids of honour, or simply couldn’t imagine your day without your besties by your side, consider opting for this fun and unusual top table layout. 

10) Musical chairs 

If you don’t love the idea of a top table but still want to enjoy the company of your closest friends and family throughout the reception, consider a ‘musical chairs’ approach.

With this setup, you and your spouse move around to different tables during the meal, spending time with various groups of guests. This way, you can personally connect with more people and ensure everyone feels included in your special day.

Have a few extra, empty seats set up at each wedding table and then make your way around each table during the wedding reception. You and your new spouse could either go together, or tag team to make sure you hit every table. If you’d prefer the second option, try to carve out a little time in the middle with them to ensure you don’t miss out on their company during your wedding reception. 

Pro tip: You’ll need to clear this one with your caterers and wedding venue. As much as we’re sure they’d be happy to accommodate, it’s best to give them the heads up so they aren’t chasing you around with your beef wellington! 

11) No top table/inclusive seating arrangement

FOMO got you down? Skip the top table altogether and opt for a more inclusive seating arrangement where you and your new spouse can mingle freely with your guests. We recommend having designated seats on specific wedding tables, but leaving plenty of time between wedding breakfast courses to ensure you can mingle around the room and spend time with your guests. 

This ‘top table seating arrangement’ encourages a more relaxed and interactive atmosphere, allowing you to connect personally with more people throughout the celebration. 

The bottom line on top table setting plans

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The top table of a wedding reception is the focal point of the celebration. It’s where the most important people in your life gather to share in your joy, and usually includes the bride, groom, both of your parents, the best man, and the maid of honour. However, there’s no need to stick strictly to tradition if you’d prefer something more fun or unusual. 

From intimate sweetheart tables to adorable cutie pie tables for the little ones, there are countless ways to make your top table uniquely yours. If you’re looking for flexibility, consider seating only those giving speeches at the top table, or if you want to keep it old-school and sentimental, invite your grandparents to share in the magic of the day. 

Whatever you choose to do, the most important thing is that your top table reflects your personality, relationships, and includes those who have supported and continue to support you most. Incorporate your nearest and dearest into your wedding reception and you’re sure to have a day filled with laughs and happy memories.

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11 Tips for Planning a Queer Wedding: From a Queer, Engaged Wedding Photographer

Guest article written by the lovely Laura Bareham. Laura is a queer wedding photographer based in Warrington, Cheshire, who focuses on creating a safe, inclusive environment for all couples. Laura wholeheartedly believes that your wedding day should be exactly how you want it, free from the shackles of expectation or tradition. Through a unique and unobtrusive storytelling approach, she creates photographs that capture the true personality and spirit of your wedding day. Outside of photography, Laura is happiest pottering in the garden, curled up with a book or watching corny police dramas.

You can check out Laura’s incredible work directly via her website or Instagram, or explore her wonderful profile right here on Bridebook. 

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I’m Laura, and I’m a queer and inclusive wedding photographer based in Cheshire. I got engaged to my wonderful partner Soph in December 2023, and am currently fully immersed in my own wedding planning! I’ve always focused my business on being inclusive, providing a safe space for queer people to be themselves free of judgements or assumptions, and this has only become more important to me since planning my own wedding. 

Planning a wedding is a big undertaking for any couple: alongside all the joy and excitement are a whole raft of decisions to make, suppliers to book and tasks to tick off! With the wedding industry being largely focused on straight cisgender people, this process can be especially daunting for queer people. In my experience (and that of many of my queer couples), when people hear the word ‘wedding’, they automatically assume that it’s a heterosexual wedding. Whilst as queer people most of us experience this sort of assumption on a regular basis throughout our lives, it can be particularly challenging during such a sensitive, vulnerable, and personal time as planning your wedding.

Information and resources for queer couples are becoming easier to come by, but this area is arguably still lagging a fair way behind. Some might say that we shouldn’t need separate guidance or advice at all and that we should stop talking about the differences between cis-het and queer weddings, and so many queer couples have a positive, affirming wedding experience; but the reality is that queer people do often come up against additional challenges when planning their big day. In this article, I hope to provide a bit of information and some helpful tips to make that planning process a little smoother!

It’s important at this point to address the fact that there is no single queer experience, and no single wedding planning experience. I spend a lot of my life immersed in the wedding industry and know a fair bit about how it all works; however, that’s still just my perspective. Much of this article will also apply to queer and cis-het couples alike – we all move through the wedding planning process in our own way, every wedding is unique and there are no right or wrong answers.

Anyway, enough preamble – onto the useful stuff!

1) Beware tips and advice

Okay, this one might be a bit of a strange one to start with but bear with me. Anyone who is planning or has planned a wedding knows that unsolicited wedding advice is lurking around every corner, and it can be incredibly overwhelming knowing what you want to do with everyone and their dog sticking their two pence in. Unfortunately, there can also be those people who just don’t want to accept or understand the things that are important to you and who do not have your best interests at heart. Add to that the fact that the majority of online resources are cis-het focused, and your efforts to find useful advice and guidance can have you in a sweat in ten seconds flat.

At the end of the day, the only person who knows what’s best for you, is you. By all means, make those Pinterest boards, save inspo pics and ask your friends and family for help when you’re making decisions, but just remember that everyone views a wedding through their own lens. Your wedding day is about you, and ultimately, what you say goes!

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2) Give yourself plenty of time to plan

Planning a wedding can throw up some big questions, not just about table plans and décor options, but about who you are, how you see yourself and what a wedding means to you. You’re likely to have different perspectives and opinions on things, so prioritise communication and make space to discuss each person’s priorities openly and without judgement. Forget everything you think you know about weddings; go through each element individually and establish how you as a couple relate to each element. There are no rules!

3) Think carefully about your guest list

I think anyone who has planned a wedding has found the guest list to be a point of contention at some point throughout the process! Whether it’s minimum or maximum numbers for your chosen venue, cost per head for the wedding breakfast or debates about plus ones, crafting your perfect guest list can be a challenge. Keep communication open and honest with your partner about guest list priorities and who each of you feels comfortable inviting to share your day with you.

It would also feel remiss of me not to mention negative reactions from friends, families and acquaintances at this point. Sending wedding invites can be a really vulnerable process, especially for queer couples. Not everyone is accepting of queer marriage, and the invite process can often bring homophobia into the light. One of my couples experienced several invite rejections from extended family members due to them ‘politely accepting our relationship but choosing not to attend because it is a queer wedding’. 

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4) Approach traditions with caution

Wedding traditions are so hard-wired into many of us that it can be hard to think outside of the box when it comes to your own plans. Telly, films and the world around us have shaped our idea of what a wedding is ‘supposed’ to look like, and queer people are very rarely reflected within this. Your wedding is a celebration of you, and you can do as you please regardless of what’s ‘usually’ done.

There is also a lot of history attached to wedding traditions. Some good examples…

  • In the Western world, a bride wearing white symbolised purity and virginity.
  • Some say that bridesmaids come from a time when brides were seen as property to be kidnapped, stolen or killed by rivals, whilst others say it was to confuse evil spirits so they wouldn’t attack the bride.
  • A bride being given away by her father used to signify a transfer of ownership from one man to another.
  • Getting married in a church isn’t an option for the vast majority of queer people (on that note, if you’re looking for some inspiration for non-traditional wedding venues, check out this stunning styled shoot in Manchester City Centre).

You get the gist – these traditions are all but meaningless in the modern world whether you’re queer or not, yet they’re so often followed unquestioningly. 

That said, just because you’re planning a queer wedding doesn’t mean you have to do away with tradition entirely. If a tradition feels good for you, run with it! Just don’t feel pressured to do something that is at odds with your morals, relationship, or plain common sense just because tradition told you to.

When I think of a queer wedding that was the perfect blend of tradition, modernity and queer joy, I think of Jon and Jay. Check out their dreamy Cheshire wedding here.

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5) Consider rethinking your wedding terminology

The possibilities here are endless. If you’re feeling a disconnect with traditional wedding terminology, why not come up with your own alternatives? In my experience I’ve come across alternatives such as ‘marriers’ instead of ‘couple’ (after all, not all marriages include a bride and/or groom and not all marriages consist of two people); ‘bests’ instead of bridesmaids and groomsmen; and a whole host of other terminology tweaks which have made peoples’ wedding days feel more ‘them’.

If you do decide to use alternative terms during your wedding planning and big day, consider sharing these with your suppliers and loved ones if you feel safe and comfortable doing so. As a supplier, I always do my best to use whichever terms, words and phrases make my couples feel most comfortable, and those who love and care for you should make an effort to do the same.

Which leads me neatly onto…

6) Choose wedding suppliers who align with your values and vision

There are so many incredible queer and inclusive suppliers out there! From venues to florists to ateliers to DJs, queer people and allies are everywhere and the wedding industry is no exception. Each individual supplier will contribute to the feel of your wedding day and your overall experience, so it makes sense to have a think about what’s important to you and book people who align with this.

I’ve met couples who have proudly planned their wedding using exclusively queer vendors, whereas for other couples this is much less of a priority. Not all queer vendors will include their sexuality on their websites, and not all allies will shout about it over socials. That doesn’t mean that they won’t provide a fantastic, safe and inclusive experience for you on your wedding day. Often, we just get a ‘feel’ for people and that will be different for everyone, so I’d recommend doing your research, having a good chat with suppliers before booking to make sure you feel comfortable with them, and going with your heart.

It can feel intimidating knowing where to start when it comes to booking suppliers, but there are lots of brilliant directories out there which provide a great starting point, including some fantastic queer-specific ones and, of course, Bridebook!

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7) Give yourself permission to wear whatever makes you happy

“Well, you’re both brides so of course you’ll both wear a dress” – an actual thing an actual person said to my partner and I about our wedding. Gender expectations around attire is by no means limited to queer weddings, but it’s the type of comment that a lot of us hear during planning. 

The way we choose to present ourselves to the world is an incredibly personal choice, and it’s so important that on your wedding day you can wear something that feels good, feels affirming and feels you. Some of us instinctively know from the offset what we want to wear (I always knew it was going to be a dress for me), but others don’t have that same certainty. The heavy stereotypes around wedding clothing can also bring up some complicated feelings and emotions, so give yourself plenty of time to plan your outfit so you can navigate these moments without looming time pressures.

If traditional wedding clothing isn’t hitting the spot for you, try thinking outside the box:

  • Would you feel comfortable moving away from ‘traditional’ wedding colours? What colours do you love? (Enter past bride El’s pink suit of dreams – check it out here).
  • What clothes do you already own that make you feel great? Is there a version of this that you’d feel comfortable wearing on your wedding day?
  • Consider shopping in less traditionally wedding-y places, such as high street stores, charity shops and eBay/Vinted.
  • Whilst this may not be an option that is financially viable to all, you might consider having an outfit custom-made, giving you total freedom over what you want to create.
  • It’s also worth doing a bit of an audit of your friends and family’s skillsets – you might already know someone who can put together the wedding outfit of your dreams!

One of my 2024 couples is the perfect example of doing-what-works-for-you – they’ve made their own dresses, neither are wearing white and they’ve shared every step of the creation process. The result is two very happy brides with completely custom outfits which are going to make them feel absolutely incredible on the day! Nobody should have to compromise on that kind of feeling.

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8) Choose your shopping experience wisely

There are expectations at literally every turn when you’re planning a wedding, and shopping for your wedding outfit is no exception (especially for brides). I know when I was shopping for my wedding dress, I felt a bit paralysed by how to go about it, especially as I wasn’t planning to have a traditional bridal party – who was I supposed to invite? Would my mum be hurt if I didn’t ask her to go with me? What if I loved something, but didn’t get the reaction I wanted from the people who were with me? Did it all have to be such a big deal?

In the end, the appointments where I felt most comfortable were the ones I went to on my own. For some of them, I didn’t even tell anyone I was going. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, cut the noise and consider shopping alone, or carefully choose the person that you feel is going to give you what you need during that experience. Also, if in-person shopping gives you the ick, start your research online and create a focused shortlist of places that feel safe and comfortable for you to visit.

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9) Think flexibly about hen/stag celebrations

Another area of wedding planning that is rife with traditions and expectations is hen and stag celebrations, and these expectations are also heavily gendered. This may mean that some queer couples feel a significant disconnect with the idea of a hen or stag do – Soph and I definitely did! It’s fair to say that these kinds of celebrations aren’t for everyone no matter what kind of couple you are, but if you do want to celebrate with loved ones without the heavily gendered traditions, here is a reminder that your hen or stag do can look however you want it to. Consider having a joint celebration, invite anyone you want regardless of gender, call it by a different name if hen or stag doesn’t feel like a good fit, steer clear of gendered gimmicks… or don’t have one at all if you don’t want to! 

10) Do your research around honeymoon destinations

For many queer people, checking how safe and accepted we’ll be in any given destination is a standard part of planning any holiday. This becomes even more important during honeymoon planning, as more couples consider far-flung destinations where legality and culture can vary significantly to countries closer to home. In some popular honeymoon destinations, such as the Caribbean and the Maldives, homosexuality is still illegal; other countries have relaxed their laws around homosexuality in recent years, but local culture is still not welcoming to queer people and therefore visiting may not be safe. 

There are many wonderful honeymoon destinations where queer people are welcomed with open arms including most parts of Greece, Thailand and Italy, so there are still great options out there – just make sure you do your research before you book. 

Photo © Laura Bareham Photography | Explore Laura’s portfolio on her website

11) Do whatever you want

I guess this really just sums up the whole article. Ultimately, your wedding is your day and how it plays out is your choice. If something works for you, do it. If it doesn’t, don’t! By all means, ask those you trust for advice and support where needed and utilise the enormous raft of general wedding-related information and inspiration available online, but just be sure not to lose sight of the most important thing – you!

If you’re looking for a bit more queer wedding inspiration or information, I’ve got a few more blogs over on my website that you might find interesting:

A huge thank you to Pippa Volans, Esme Whiteside, Kieran Bellis, my couples and my loved ones who generously shared their thoughts, feelings and experiences to help me write this article.

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60 Best Wedding Table Name Ideas

You’ve planned your menu, completed your table centrepieces, and sorted your place cards. There’s just one thing left to do — name your tables!

Naming your wedding tables may seem like a small detail, but it can have a big impact on the overall theme and feel of your wedding reception. Of course, you can just number your wedding tables, but where’s the fun in that?

If you’re struggling to name your wedding tables, don’t stress. We’re here to help! We’ve compiled a list of the 60 best wedding table name ideas to get your creative juices flowing and spark your imagination. From nature-inspired themes to nods to your favourite movies, there’s something for every couple. 

So, whether you’re dreaming of romantic beaches, enchanted forests, or vintage classics, you’ll find the perfect table names to suit your style. Let’s get started and explore the best names for your wedding reception tables!

What are wedding table names?

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Wedding table names are the names you give to your wedding tables to differentiate them and add a personal touch to your reception decor. They can help your guests find their seats more easily, help your serving staff work efficiently, and add a fun touch to the overall ambience. 

Naming your wedding tables after a theme gives a feeling of cohesion to the wedding reception, and if it fits in with your wedding theme then all the better! You can name your wedding tables after your favourite beaches, with inside jokes from your favourite film franchise, or even after the flowers in your wedding bouquet. The only limit to naming wedding tables is your imagination. 

How do you name tables at a wedding?

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We recommend naming your wedding tables after places, films, or songs that are significant to you and your partner. If creativity and meaning are important to you, don’t pick a name just because it sounds good, or use something generic like numbers. This is your chance to pick a beautiful and personal name for each table that will add to the vibe and ambience of your big day.

What should you name the top table at a  wedding?

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The top table is traditionally the table where the bride and groom sit, so it’s natural that you should give this table your favourite wedding table name.

How can you make table names for a wedding?

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You can easily make your own wedding table names out of materials that fit your wedding theme, such as wooden signs, chalkboards, or elegant cardstock. You can also get creative with calligraphy, printed designs, or even unique objects that represent each table name.

Your wedding table name should sit in the middle of the rest of your wedding table decor or near your centrepieces.  Just make sure that the names are clearly visible and easy for guests to find their seats.

Alternatively, for a professional touch, consider working with an experienced stationer or designer, who can help you bring your table name ideas to life!

Name ideas for wedding tables

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Keep reading for 60 fun and creative name ideas for wedding tables. 

Nature-themed wedding table names

  1. The four seasons. If you only have four tables, consider naming your tables after the 4 seasons. You could even theme your wedding centrepieces and table decor around these names to really drive home the theme. 
  2. Flowers. Consider naming your tables after your favourite blooms. Whether it’s roses, daisies, orchids, or Britain’s beautiful wildflowers, you’ll be hard-pressed to run out of table names if you name them after flowers. 
  3. Seas and oceans. If you have less than 7 tables and are looking for a nautical theme, consider naming your tables after one of the 7 seas. Atlantic, Pacific, Indian, Arctic, Southern, Mediterranean, and Caribbean – each table named after one of these majestic bodies of water will transport your guests to far-off shores and infuse your reception with maritime charm.
  4. Constellations. If you love stars, the night sky, or astronomy, consider naming your wedding tables after some well-known stars and constellations. Whether it’s Carina, Orion, Lyra, or Ursa Major, the sky’s the limit with this creative naming framework. 
  5. Hills and mountains. You could either name your tables after the UK’s famous mountains and hills, or go further afield and name them after mountains from around the world. Think Ben Nevis, Snowdon (Yr Wyddfa), and Scafell Pike. Alternatively, use Mt. Everest, Mt. Kilimanjaro, or the Himalayas. 
  6. Trees and forests. There are an abundance of natural forests and trees in the UK you could name your tables after. If you prefer the idea of using trees, try Oak, Sycamore, or Maple. If you’d like to use forests, try the New Forest, Sherwood Forest, or the Forest of Dean. 

Location-themed wedding table names

  1. Landmarks. Try naming your tables after famous landmarks. Think the Eiffel Tower, The Colosseum, or the Great Wall of China. Bonus points if they have a special significance to you and your partner. 
  2. Beaches. Naming your wedding tables after beaches is a great choice if you’re from an island or a seaside town, planning a destination wedding, or simply love visiting the beach. You could try using famous beaches like Llanddwyn on the Isle of Anglesey, Brighton beach, or Copacabana in Rio de Janeiro.
  3. Cities. If you prefer hustle and bustle, try naming your tables after cities in the UK or after capital cities around the world. You could use London, Edinburgh, and Dublin for a local feel, or go for Tokyo, Copenhagen, or Melbourne for an international flavour. 
  4. Your travels. If you and your partner love travelling and taking holidays, you could name your wedding tables after the places you’ve visited. Consider using the cities you stayed in or naming your travels after the adventures you had while you were there. Think ‘Snorkelling in Tenerife’ or ‘Onsen in Japan’.
  5. Sentimental places. Recall the names of the towns you grew up in, the places you went to university, or the locations of significant milestones in your relationship. Whether it’s the quaint cafe where you had your first date, the park where you shared your first kiss, or the spot where you got engaged, naming tables after these sentimental places will add a deeply personal and nostalgic touch to your wedding.
  6. Famous streets. If you like the idea of using location-themed wedding table names, but don’t feel especially attached to any place, famous street names are a great option. You could use Penny Lane, Broadway, Abbey Road, or Champs-Élysées depending on the vibe you’re trying to create. 

Film-themed wedding table names

  1. Classic cinema films. You could name your wedding tables after your favourite old films or classic films. For example, Casablanca, the Wizard of Oz, or Singin’ in the Rain. 
  2. Old Hollywood icons. Using old Hollywood icons like Fred & Ginger, Audrey Hepburn, Marilyn Monroe, or Charlie Chaplain will bring a touch of glamour and nostalgia to your big day. 
  3. Famous movie quotes. Name tables after iconic movie quotes that hold special meaning to you as a couple. For example, ‘May the Force Be with You,’ ‘I’ll Have What She’s Having,’ or ‘To Infinity and Beyond.’
  4. Your favourite film characters. Try naming tables after characters from your favourite film. For example, Groot, Gamora, and Nebula. This will add a personal touch to your reception and may give your guests a new favourite film! 
  5. Famous film couples. Name tables after iconic on-screen sweethearts who reflect your and your partner’s love story. For example, Romeo & Juliet, Jack & Rose, Mickey & Minnie, or Noah & Allie. 
  6. Famous film props. If you want to name your wedding tables after your favourite film but would prefer to use a more subtle naming scheme, consider using film props. For example, consider naming your tables Ruby Slippers, Golden Cap, or Toto’s Basket to show your love for the Wizard of Oz. 

Music-themed wedding table names

  1. Song titles. Use your favourite song titles to inspire your wedding table names. Try using romantic songs or songs that describe your feelings for your partner for an added touch of romance. For example, Golden Hour, Unforgettable, or Can’t Help Falling In Love.
  2. Your favourite bands and/or singers. You could also use the names of your favourite bands or singers to name your wedding tables. You could name any tables with your own guests after your favourite singers, and tables with your partner’s guests after their favourite singers. This will help you stay organised when creating your seating plans. 
  3. Music icons. Try naming your wedding tables after classic music icons. This will inject a sense of nostalgia and reverence into your wedding reception. You could use Aretha Franklin, Elvis, The Beatles, or David Bowie depending on your preference. 
  4. Album titles. Use the names of your favourite albums or vinyls to name your wedding tables. You could use Rumours, Dark Side of the Moon, Abbey Road, Thriller, or Purple Rain.
  5. Musical terms. If you’re part of a band, choir, or studied Music theory at university, this could be the perfect choice for your wedding tables. You could use Harmony, Melody, Rhythm, or Tempo to name a few. 
  6. Song lyrics.You could also use song lyrics that represent your and your partner’s relationship to name your tables. For example, ‘Love is All You Need,’ ‘You Are My Sunshine,’ ‘You’re Still the One,’ or ‘I Will Always Love You.’ 

Seasonal wedding table names

  1. The four seasons. You could simply name your tables Spring, Summer, Autumn, and Winter if you’re looking for simple seasonal-themed names. 
  2. Spring-themed wedding table names. Spring-themed wedding table names could include April Showers, Blossom, Daffodil, or Butterfly Garden. 
  3. Summer-themed wedding table names. Summer-themed wedding table names could include Ice Cream, Sandy Toes, Ocean Waves, or Sunny Daze. 
  4. Autumn-themed wedding table names. You could try Falling Leaves, Toadstool, or Pumpkin Spice as cute, seasonal autumn table names. 
  5. Winter-themed wedding table names. Winter-themed wedding table names could include Jack Frost, Snowflake, Mittens, or Hot Chocolate. 
  6. Christmas-themed wedding table names. For a Christmas-themed wedding, you can infuse the festive spirit into your table names. Try using Santa’s Workshop, Jingle Bells, Candy Cane, or North Pole. 

Religious wedding table names

  1. Bible verses. Name tables after meaningful Bible verses that hold significance to you as a couple, such as 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 ‘Love is patient, love is kind…’, Genesis 2:24 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh…’, or Ephesians 5:25 ‘Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church…’.
  2. Saints. You could also name your wedding tables after well-known saints from your religion. For example, Saint Francis, Saint Teresa, Saint Jude, or Saint Cecilia.
  3. Spiritual virtues. Try naming your wedding tables after the different virtues emphasised in your faith. For example, ‘Faith,’ ‘Hope,’ ‘Love,’ ‘Peace,’ or ‘Joy.’ This will infuse your wedding celebration with the values and principles that guide your faith, reminding you and your guests of the spiritual foundation of your union.
  4. Angels. You could also try naming wedding tables after the different Angels named in religious texts. For example, Gabriel, Michael, Raphael, or Uriel. 
  5. Your favourite hymns. Use your favourite hymns as inspiration for naming your wedding tables. Consider hymns that hold special meaning to you and your partner. For example, ‘Amazing Grace,’ ‘How Great Thou Art,’ or ‘Be Thou My Vision.’
  6. Well-known religious figures. You could also name your wedding tables after well-known biblical figures. Try to use figures who are prominent in your religion. For example, Moses, Mohammed, Ruth, Mary, or Jesus. 

Disney wedding table names

  1. Beloved characters. Name your wedding tables after your favourite classic characters. Think Mickey, Minnie, Goofy, and Pluto. You could even have the theme of each table revolve around these characters. Think bows for Minnie, ears for Mickey, or bright colours to capture the motifs of each character.  
  2. Disney parks. You could name your wedding tables after your favourite Disney parks. For example, Disneyland Paris, Disney World, Tokyo Disney, and more. This is ideal whether you’re planning a Disney wedding specifically, or just love visiting the parks. If you’ve been lucky enough to visit a few parks, consider using your personal holiday snaps from each one as wedding table decor! 
  3. Your favourite films. Name your wedding tables after all your favourite films. Whether you’re a fan of the classic princess films, prefer new classics like Encanto and Tangled, or have fallen in love with the live action films, you’ll never be short of movie names with Disney’s library of titles. 
  4. Famous Disney quotes. Try naming your wedding tables after famous Disney love quotes. You could keep them short and sweet with ‘Some people are worth melting for’, or use slightly longer quotes like ‘Find who you love through true love’s kiss’.
  5. Disney couples. You could also use the names of famous Disney couples for your wedding table names. For example, Ariel & Eric, Beauty & The Beast, Cinderella & Prince Charming, or Anna & Elsa. 
  6. Film locations. Name your wedding tables after the locations of Disney films. For example, the magical kingdom of Arandelle, the Hundred Acre Wood, or the bustling city of Agrabah. 

Harry Potter inspired wedding table names

  1. Book names. You could name your wedding tables after the Harry Potter books so long as you have less than 7 tables. We recommend using a shortened version of the titles to save your guests a little time when finding their seats. For example, ‘Philosopher’s Stone’ instead of ‘Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone’.  
  2. Your favourite Hogwarts characters. Name your wedding tables after beloved characters and pets from the franchise. For example, Harry Potter, Hedwig, Crookshanks, Draco Malfoy, and more. 
  3. The Hogwarts Houses. If you only have 4 tables, consider naming them Gryffindor, Ravenclaw, Hufflepuff, and Slytherin. Have fun sorting your guests into their respective houses when planning your table plan!
  4. The Hogwarts ghosts. If you prefer the eerie charm of Hogwarts’ spectral inhabitants, you could name your wedding tables after the ghosts that haunt the corridors of the castle. For example, Nearly Headless Nick, the Bloody Baron, the Grey Lady, or the Fat Friar. 
  5. Concepts from the books. Weave your love for the Harry Potter books through your wedding reception with this subtle naming scheme. You could use concepts from the book like the Room of Requirement, the Marauder’s Map, or Dumbledore’s Army. 
  6. Book locations. You could also name your wedding tables after different locations in the books. For example, Hogsmeade, Diagon Alley, the Forbidden Forest, or Grimmauld Place. 

Quirky wedding table names

  1. Your favourite superheroes. If you’re a fan of old comic books, superhero films, or cartoon characters, consider naming your wedding tables after your favourite superheroes. You could use Superman, Catwoman, Spiderman, or Poison Ivy depending on your preferences. 
  2. Literary characters. Name your wedding tables after characters from your favourite book. You could name all your tables with characters from the same book, or mix and match characters from different books to better represent your interests. For example, consider Sherlock Holmes, John Watson, Jo March, or Katniss Everdeen.
  3. Your favourite sweets. If you or your partner have a sweet tooth, try naming your wedding tables after your favourite sweet treats. For example, humbugs, lemon sherberts, sherbert dib-dabs, or gobstoppers. You could even add small jars of your favourite sweets to the middle or each table for a sweet centrepiece! 
  4. Fairytale creatures. Unicorn, Fairy, Nymph, and Warlock are all beautiful and whimsical names for your wedding tables. 
  5. Mythological figures. If you love the stories of Ancient Greece or other mythological traditions, consider naming your wedding tables after figures from mythology. You could use names like Zeus, Athena, Poseidon, or Aphrodite for a Greek mythology theme. Alternatively, explore Norse mythology with names like Odin, Thor, Freya, or Loki.
  6. Famous musicals. Naming your wedding tables after famous musicals is a great way to express your love for the performing arts and add a touch of theatrical flair to your celebration. Consider naming tables after beloved musicals, such as ‘Phantom of the Opera,’ ‘Les Misérables,’ ‘The Sound of Music,’ or ‘Hamilton.’ You could also choose specific songs or characters from these musicals to inspire your table names, such as ‘Defying Gravity,’ ‘Maria and Captain,’ or ‘Rise Up.’ 

Unique wedding table names

  1. Wedding table names in different languages. If you, your partner or any of your guests speak other languages like Spanish, French, German, or Arabic, consider naming your tables in these beautiful languages. You could use romantic or meaningful words and phrases in these languages to add an international flair to your wedding reception. For example Amor (Love), Sueño (Dream), and Esperanza (Hope) in Spanish, or Joie (Joy), Bonheur (Happiness), and Étoile (Star) in French. 
  2. Love languages. Do you and your partner speak regularly about your love language? If so, consider naming your wedding tables after the 5 love languages. You could use Affection, Words of Affirmation, and Acts of Service to spread the conversation about love languages throughout your reception. 
  3. Vintage cars. If you’re a fan of vintage cars, greaser culture, or classic automobiles, naming your wedding tables after iconic vintage cars can add a touch of retro charm to your celebration. You could use names like Cadillac, Corvette, Thunderbird, or even the classic Mini Cooper! 
  4. Famous paintings. Incorporate your love of art into your big day by naming your wedding tables after some well-known paintings. Try the Mona Lisa, Starry Night, and The Kiss to get you started. 
  5. Jewels/gemstones. Bring a little sparkle to your reception by naming your wedding tables after gemstones or semi-precious stones. You could use Ruby, Diamond, and Sapphire for a little glamour, or Turquoise, Jasper, and Jade if you prefer something more natural. 
  6. Classic cocktails. Name your wedding tables after your and your partner’s favourite cocktails. You could use an Espresso Martini, Cuba Libre, or a classic Woo Woo to get you started. 

The bottom line of wedding table names

Carefully naming your wedding tables may seem like a small detail, but the names of your tables can have a big impact on the overall vibe and ambience of your wedding reception. You can name your wedding tables after your favourite places, son titles, fictional characters, and more. The most important thing is that it ties in with your overall wedding theme and reflects your personality as a couple. Avoid generic or uninspired names like ‘Table 1’ or ‘Table A’ – this is your chance to get creative and make your wedding truly memorable. 

So, if you’re unsure where to start, we hope you take inspiration from this list of 60 wedding table name ideas. Whether you’re looking for something fun, creative, unique, quirky, or even a nod to your religious service, we’ve covered all your bases. Happy wedding planning, and happy naming!

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